Friends or "friends"

like what Sarah said, woman are capable of linking one thing to another

and she cited example "now u know why mother are able to nag at you for 1 day"

well.. i guess it's very true. because sometimes in such session, she nagged abt A, which triggered this session, then follow by B, which is slightly linked with A, then C which was linked to B then come D in which it is linked with C, so on and so forth and then u start pissed and said what's the hell B, C, D is linked A. and i'm again fall into the victim of this.

sigh. It's never well to get along with someone who has depression. Well, i guess i might already got such kind of "illness".

ok.. talk about friends, "friends.

I think being too good/kind is actually a sin in a particular person's character in nowadays society.

I wouldn't say i'm kind/good. i consider helpful but most of the time, i guess it's quite well-interlinked.

it's when u got a request from ur friend(s) to help them, and in being helpful, u help them to get what they want. Sometimes, it takes up your personal time. then make an effort to meet them and again that's sacrifices

ok, now i need a simple help. Win xp pro cd rom. Weechong, shanhe, sam, sun tian came into it. Of course, those who didn't have the CD, i'm ok with it. but for those who has it, seem to disappear into the thin air and those were the one whom i helped them.

she's still nagging at me when i'm still blogging now for not a big reason

Help brought up. Spent all the best effort in finding the resources. Spend time and sometimes, push away some personal stuff to assist them.

Then arrange timetable with them. sometimes an appt was arranged prior to this was push away. jsut to meet them and pass to them because i know they need it urgently.

ok now, what's the morale of the story?

SIMPLY BE BAD, PUSH AWAY REQUEST BY SAYING I DUN KNOW, I DUN HAVE.

but still, i hope anyone who is reading this pls be a bit more sensitive to the one who assisted u all the way, and he/she understood the urgency of this matter when he/she put themselves into your shoe.

ok i know life's unfair. but before u say this. "did you actually try to make life's a bit more fair" if not u shouldn't be saying this.

and from now, i'm not entertaining any request from any ppl.

alas, she's keep quiet from the madness nite.

I shared some thing with Sarah that is still in my heart for 8 mths. After hearing out what i told her, she replied "but that doens't mean that u dun have a place in ur friends' heart"m or "It's all right mah" Ok, in fact, i told 4 ppl abt this and all of them replied the same thing.

and on that Special day, she suffered the same fate as me. I pitied her. She was like me, trying her very best to make them happy. but there isn't anyone for her on that day. I understood her feeling. and now she said, i completely know how u felt all these while.

Well, still and sincerely, i hope all of you will not suffer the same fate as us. :)

treat ur friends good, dun treat them like a trash.