Monday, June 16, 2014

A difficult week

It had been a difficult weekend for my gf and her family & relatives. A domestic issue arised and it disturbed them a lot, plus it is not something happened to every family - thus making it even harder for everyone involved to go through each second of their life.

I witnessed every small thing of their involvement in this matter, realised and learnt a few things.

But of course, it is easier to say than done as this domestic matter does not affect me directly.

I learnt that for every situation, one has to:-

1.) Stay calm
2.) Stay united
3.) Console and give positive energy to each other
4.) Discuss/study every pointers/clues scientifically
4a.) Spend more time to discuss/study instead of going elsewhere without any direction.
5.) Evaluate and explore next course of actions scientifically.

The reason I emphaised 'scientifically' is because there are situations which are time-sensitive, such as resucing trapped people, as such time is of an essence.

Plus, it will naturally re-organised resources to pool in the most efficient and effective way so as to maximise the objective one wants to achieve.

Nevertheless, I hope that the matter has a positive ending. God bless.