looks that kill

from the conversation recently with a friend, and after reading and reflecting on his story, i think, in most ways, the scenario we experienced are somehow related. It seemed like looks and physical appearances are still very much relevant and highly-sought even between relatives.

To summarise, his story is that he felt "neglected" in some way as compared to his brother who, in his view, physically much better than him and relatives tend to chat up (more) with him.

Probably, in some way, i agree to certain extend, but i think it's not very much so serious as how he imagined it to be (that is unless his relatives are very materalistic kind). Putting myself into his shoe, my guess is that at the very first human instinct, one looks for nicest thing, etc.. Having to say that, if he is to be more proactive in certain areas, i think he will patch up the shortcomings.

Later on in the conversation, he added on saying that the communication was done “more” between him and theirs relatives compared with the relatives and him.

On a personal level, though I mentioned earlier on that I experienced something like him, but I feel that my scenario isn’t that serious as him, so I can’t comment or suggest anything.

On the whole, I still agree people between people look for the nicest thing in life and probably such thing exist subconsciously even in relatives relationship and as such may lead to a willingness in communication between parties, like my friend’s case then.

(I had sent a separate email to you, so please read it up)